“But, I Don’t Have Time To Play…”
By Lisa Forbes
You know what really grinds my gears? When people devalue and dismiss play in adulthood and in higher education. This quote by Stuart Brown from his book Play: How it Shapes the Brain, Opens Imagination, and Invigorates the Soul should be a lesson to us:
“In addition to being pulled away from play, we are pushed from play, shamed into rejecting it by a culture that doesn’t understand the human need for it and doesn’t respect it. Play is seen as something children do, so playing is seen as a childish activity not done in the adult world. The message is that if you are a serious person doing serious work, you should be serious.” ~ Stuart Brown
The core of my being is playful. I don’t like formal things. I don’t like serious things – solely serious things anyway. I teach mental health counseling and I am a Licensed Professional Counselor so I know seriousness. It’s not that I’m a clown that goofs around all of the time but it’s my belief that somehow, as adults, we think that if we play, it’s a waste of time, that it isn’t serious enough, or it’s counter to productivity or “success.” [I say “success” with air quotes because I also have a problem with the standards of success being defined by a culture that values overcommitting, overworking, stress, and “busy-ness” — but that’s for another blog]. When I talk about play in higher education a common reaction I get is: “My discipline is too serious for play” Or, “There’s too much to cover in my course so there’s no time for play.”
I’d like to argue that by allowing play into our lives and into our classrooms in higher education, it allows students to approach the seriousness from a more centered and prepared place. It allows us to engage with the seriousness for longer durations of time and with more focus and compassion then if we disallowed play. Based on the data from my research study on play in higher education, I found that when we spend a little time on play in teaching, it cultivates trust, community, vulnerability, risk taking, passion, intrinsic motivation, and more. And all of those things make learning easier. So, I’ve found that if I am brave enough to “waste some time” on allowing play in my classrooms, it actually generates more learning.
Play is like ‘learning lube,’ if you will. 🙂
Play makes the students more invested and ultimately willing to work harder which actually makes teaching them easier. Instead of me being solely responsible for teaching all of the things to empty and passive vessels, with play, a lot of the learning ends up being generated by the students’ own effort and motivation – in addition to mine.
I think of it as instead of working against students’ resistance or barriers to learning, through play we can work with the barriers they have coming into learning to work with them. My step-uncle died of cancer a few years ago and he was an avid white water rafter. His nephew wrote this beautiful story about how my uncle taught him how to navigate the waters by working with the power of the currents instead of fighting them. I remembered this story as I was trying to find a metaphor for play in teaching and working with students’ barriers to learning. I think it fits pretty perfectly…
“The water is always stronger than you are, organize your tools and effort, and work with the current. Your goal isn’t to steer the boat so much as putting it in a beneficial position for the currents of the river to steer it.”
In this metaphor, the water is the student’s stress, trauma, barriers to learning, lack of motivation – in my opinion, traditional education (strict, hierarchical lecture-based teaching) is like fighting those currents to try to “steer” student’s learning. But, the way I see it is, the use of play is organizing your tools and effort to work with the current. Play reduces stress and anxiety, makes students feel safe, and allows them to concentrate in order to access the content in a way that is like “putting the boat in a beneficial position for the currents of the river” to steer it toward success. Instead of expecting students to come into the classroom motivated and free of challenging currents that you must fight against and expecting them to readily be intrinsically motivated, play allows you to work with them and provide a more integrated and humanistic form of education that opens students up to learning.
To close, I will provide some of my students quotes from my research study. Here they talk about how play helps them approach the seriousness of the class more effectively.
“We [students] bring the seriousness, we bring the stress – in mountains – to class so the play and fun lightened us up, but it never detracted from the class or the seriousness.”
“Play and games makes the seriousness more approachable.”
“Play allowed me to take my education seriously without having to take the stress of it seriously.”
So, go ahead, “waste some time” and play a little. 🙂